Introduction
International dating is not as well known in the UK as it is in the USA, so this page will provide guidance of the types of service offers that are less appropriate, and it will point out why we think our approach is better, in fact unique. This site was set up by a man called Steve (see "about us") who experienced first hand many of the problems associated with both UK and International dating, which means that you can avoid making those same mistakes, which will effectively ensure the journey is thrilling, as it should be, with less expenditure. There are 1000's of agencies and affiliates of agencies to choose from, and choosing the wrong one could be the missed opportunity of a lifetime. Aside from the fact that we do not use international affiliate agencies, a significant benefit in itself, we are also accountable and contactable in the UK (07980 545155). Some of our unique characteristics can more easily be explained in contrast with what we do NOT do - hence this is priceless guidance that will save you time, money and significantly reduce the possibility of disapointment.
On this page:
1 - Crucial differences that make us unique
2 - Learn to choose and be selective
3 - Who is this service for?
1 - Crucial differences that make us unique
We DON'T simplify the service of meeting ladies saying "choose twenty ladies, pay for a tour, and come and meet them all", as if no planning is required. That's too good to be true. No agency can presume a lady will be genuinely interested. Organising meetings take planning and preparation and that is what our system does. If the agency is more interested in taking your money than they are about concretely confirming all the ladies who are interested and available to meet you on your dates then you are likely to be seriously mis-led. Such an agency would then have to try to introduce you to their selection of ladies because they did NOT confirm to you if all your selection were still available, contactable, and most importantly, if they are actually genuinely interested. You must endeavour to meet ladies who you choose, otherwise you are potentially supporting a scam if you allow the agency to convince you that they all "will" be interested, because they will simply try to get you to meet "their" selection, which is counter productive, because you should choose the ladies.
We DO recommend planning in advance, using our system to ensure you meet ladies that "you" choose. That's why you choose your ladies at the outset, and we check in advance that your chosen ladies are still single, interested, and contactable, which can take a couple of weeks to determine. This process gives you time to choose more ladies if necessary, so that you are meeting the ladies you choose, who you like, for example, non smoker, no children, over 5ft 3in, brown hair etc, and that way you will get what you pay for. Our system of providing tour discounts for booking 1 or 2 months in advance, provides ample time for you to build a selection of confirmed ladies you wish to meet, but the main thing is that you have the highest likelihood of meeting all "your" chosen ladies, because this is confirmed in advance of paying for the tour. We guarantee you will meet ladies if you follow our programme. See Terms and Conditions.
As long as you communicate with actual ladies that you have selected by yourself, who are genuinely interested, then you will be thrilled with our services. Choosing ladies is the key factor that puts the men in full control, in terms of both security, and destiny in terms of success.
We DON'T pay staff to make up replies to your letters, as if they are the lady you have selected. Imagine staff in an office, on a bonus system writing letters - totally unforgivable, totally criminal. We can categorically prove how many responses every member has on our website. One man, aged 57 etc etc, wrote to 300 ladies, and he "only" got 60 replies, but they were genuine, so that is the main thing. 60 ladies who said yes I want to meet you - it is still a fantastic result. We expect up to 50% of the ladies you choose will be interested, and it is highly probable that you will meet all the ladies that agree to meet you.
We DO offer "unlimited" communications in terms of sending first letters, which are conducive to quality rather than quantity. If a lady is not available or not interested we tell you, and say, write to more ladies (free unlimited letters). Many ladies log in at www.english-dating.com to make their replies, and some can reply in English by themselves. Those that don't write English, we translate for them. Those that don't have internet or use internet infrequently, we phone them to get the reply over the phone. Men that do not get as many replies as they would have hoped for, receive additonal marketing of their profile.
We DON'T ask you to pay for for a tour, and then when you arrive in Kiev, pile on a load of extra expenses.
We DO tell you that we allow 15% of your tour price to cover adhoc expenses, and you will know well in advance if this is not possible. Most of our ladies are in Kiev. If you chose 20 ladies from Russia, then we cant pay 20 train fares or 20 flight fares, as it is not possible. It's about common sense. Normaly, guys choose maybe 2 or 3 ladies from afar. We ask the lady if she needs assistance with expenses. If so, we balance the expenses against the tour expense allowance, and if it exceeds the allowance, we check that it is OK with the client, which can be settled when you arrive in Kiev. You know exactly in advance. The key is knowing the truth in advance, regardless it is just a nominal figure.
We DON'T just allow the prettiest ladies to join our site.
We DO allow most ladies to join our site. Lets be realistic. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and a 25 year olds needs don't always coincide with a 65 years olds. A recent tour member said that is what made him think our site was the most genuine, and he said it was a good move. But it's not just that. Most men do like looks, but often, pesonality can and does come into the equation. Also, it is a fact that many ladies do not have professional photos, and we believe that most of our tour members will be pleasantly surprised by the ensuing reality. Again, this brings satisfaction to the member. No delusions here. Put in a little time and effort, and we will ensure we find you ladies who are interested. This has got to be a crucial element of making this a success.
We DON'T get staff to send you false messages, that ladies are intersted in you, just to get you to join or upgrade.
We DO allow ladies to send an "expression of wish" themselves. This is a polite letter asking you to write first. But very few ladies are actually using this functionality, because so few ladies think they have got any chance of being selected by a man from the West. You may get the occasional expression of wish from a lady that you would not even be seen with, let alone date, but do not take offence. Be delighted that you have found this site and that at least it is genuine. All you have got to do is write to ladies you do like, you will know very soon we are genuine, so crack on, start writing now, and start getting ready to meet these real ladies at a time that suits you.
2 - Learn to choose and be selective
Why is it that some men (including me) find it so hard to be selective? It's because we have never lived in heaven (is that a good analogy?). Ultimately thats where most women in the UK live, heaven on earth. Most UK dating sites are over subscribed with men, five or ten to one, so you really have to be one of the lucky ones to find a partner there. Most guys have never been in a situation where they have got dozens of ladies seeking to date them, so how can they quickly get to grips with a whole zeitgeist of change.
So, thats why I rant on about communicating with as many ladies as possible, because its about having choice, and doing what you have never done before, so that you can find happiness.
Some guys do really well building up their contacts for a tour. And what has happened a few times when they meet face to face with a beautiful lady - is meltdown (not sure if that's the right way to put it). Put in plain words, they fall for the first lady they like, and cancel the rest of their meetings. I strongly advise against this, because it has got something to do with what I am writing in the paragraphes above. If there are any psychologists out there reading this, then please contact me because I would like you to write a section on the issues I raise here.
3 - Who is this service ideally for?
Single Men:
Aged 25 to 65 (but ultimately over 18 with an a-factor: "active" & "adventurous").
Who enjoy to Travel to exciting and romantic locations (with or without our support).
Who actually want to find a suitable parnter, as opposed to staying single.
Who are inquisitive to find out what true dating potential really is. The odds are no longer stacked against you.
Who have free time at weekends or Annual Holidays, or can make free time.
Who have their own accommodation which is big enough for two people to live.
Who like to meet ladies for dating and serious relationship potential, as much or more than spending time with friends, or alone.
Who are able to accept our guidance about the concept of "choosing ladies" to find the right partner for yourself - who are open minded to meet a multitude of different ladies.
Who are financially Secure (in this complex world only you can determine what constitutes financial security and stability - women ... all over the world desire this, but some are happy with a flat, and some require a mansion...).
Who are willing to make an initial effort making first contact (sending our recommended introductory letter to see if the lady is still single and contactable) to at least 20 ladies - must activate basic membership to send unlimited first letters. Estimate 25% to 50% response. Not enough responses, write to more ladies, its simple. We can also assist further, if required, once your membership is active.
Offline Payments and Adding Photos Offline.
Membership for Ladies - Meeting Russian / Ukrainian Men
Our website is primarily for single men, however we are happy to provide similar services for ladies seeking foreign men, if indeed the interest exists. Do you want to be the first women to test this out, you never know you may start off a Russian/Ukrainian Groom phenomenon? If you are are a lady who wants to meet Russian or Ukrainian men, then please click below for information about membership, and tours for ladies.
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